When it comes to sex and self-care, masturbation is how you can become comfortable in your own skin and learn about what you want—I mean, what you really really want (shout-out Spice Girls).On those rare occasions in American culture when we refer to sex as a good thing, we expect women to magically know what they're interested in sexually. However, it's impossible to understand your own sexual desires and interests until you learn about them first-hand.

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